In a day and age where knights are simply remembered as characters of antiquity, the desire to walk in their footsteps seems an impossible task. The ideas of chivalry and honor appear long outdated when faced with contemporary ideas or situations. Are these ideas really outdated? Can they be applied to the here and now? Faced with these decisions, why would any man make the choice to embark on a spiritual journey and join the Knights of Columbus? Father Michael J. McGivney was born in 1852, during a time when even people of that era saw themselves as far removed from the medieval exploits of knights. When he first conceived of the Order in the year 1882, the name “Sons of Columbus” came to mind, but it was later suggested that “Knights” would better capture the expectations of joining such an organization. This expectation rests on each knight’s ability to uphold the principles of Charity, Unity, Fraternity, and Patriotism - the cornerstones of our brotherhood. Can a practical catholic man hold on to his beliefs and still exist in the modern world? I believe that for all of us the answer is “yes.”
My own experience with the Knights of Columbus began during my childhood as their presence at church functions became noticeable due to their pins and blazers. Knights participated during the mass proper, but were also most notable for their charitable events and fundraisers. Many Catholics wonder how they can contribute to their church and the parish community. Let me say that joining the Knights is one such way to give back to your faith. It is a commitment where you have to give of your time and talents, however, the returns are just as beneficial. During my First Degree Exemplification I was a bit nervous, not knowing what to expect and wondering what was expected of me. Veteran knights joked about the specific happenings of the ritual, which made some of my fellow candidates nervous. As we were lead to the chamber, it was at this moment that I decided to follow the path that God set before me. Without divulging any details as to the particulars of the ceremony, let me say, that the event was memorable and dignified. Since then, meeting other brother knights, not just in my council, but also those from the surrounding area, has been an interesting and, often, fun experience. There is a certain comfort that comes from the ability to share your faith with others in a public display of support for the organization and each other.
Recently, I took the plunge into the Second Degree along with almost sixty other candidates. This lesson left an impression on me, not just because of the amount of candidates, but also the amount of brother knights that came in support of those who were undergoing training. Following the ritual, the amount of congratulatory handshakes and other offerings of approval were made from everyone in the room. The night ended with my Grand Knight taking our council out for pizza, which always includes camaraderie and laughter in the spirit of true brotherhood. The Third Degree Exemplification concerns the principle of Fraternity and, even though I have experienced a lot of this principle, I still look forward to it.
Van Cabrieto
